little kid still snuggles me in bed every morning before school. I love it.
"Any advice for my job interview today?" I asked him yesterday.
"Hmm," he said thoughtfully. "Walk really tall, like, stand up straight. And -- " he paused for a minute, thinking some more, "You're gonna say a lot of stuff and you might be nervous so it might not always be good stuff. But just say it the way you always would. You should be yourself because people like you and if they don't, you shouldn't surprise them later. Would you even want to work there if they didn't like you? So just be you." He quickly added, "But don't cuss. Or laugh too loud. I mean, laugh, but not that hyena laugh you do when we Snapchat. Be you but more normal."
So, my guru is in 5th grade. I think the advice of not surprising someone with who you are is profound and more of us should do that.