Saturday, July 26, 2008

Social Dilemmas

Girl Crush and the other New Friend invited me out for a girl's night out tonight.

I *NEED* a girl's night out. More than you know, and you think you know, but you don't. I need one. Like a lot, a lot. I need some time to just be Ashley the human being. Not Ashley the lunch lady, or Ashley the jungle gym, or Ashley the dish washer, but Ashley the human being who has more to talk about than why no means no and why I'm not going over it again.

Also, I'm a little nervous about their little relationship that is forming. I'm not going to be the third friend, New Friend is supposed to be the third friend. Ugh. This is not good.

However, one of Mr. Ashley's relatives is in town and is coming over tonight. Unbelievably, this person comes about once a year and I get invited to do something cool about once a year and THREE YEARS IN A ROW these two events have coincided.

The last two times I went, but if it happened a third time, it'd be pretty hard to convince said visitor that I'm not wild, drunken, Saturday night party mom.

But man do I need to be wild, drunken, Saturday night party mom.


Jess said...

Is it possible for you to hang with the ILs for awhile tonight and then slip out and meet the girls later? After all, Saturday nights don't really get hoppin until after 11:00 p.m. or so anyway... :oP

Anonymous said...

That just absolutely totally sucks!!! Can you ask for a rain check from girl crush and 3rd friend?

Mitch said...

Oh, me, too, honey. Me, too! I so need to be wild drunken party mom for a night!

Kaza said...

ME TOO. So sorry you have to miss yours. That sucks.

Life, Love And Lola said...

You SO need a girls night.

Renee said...

Go out with the Girl Crush & New Friend! Those are relationships that will pay off year-round for you. The once-a-year-visitor doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things. GOOOOO!!!!! You need this.

-The Renee

Joy said...

That sounds like something that would happen in my boring life