I just had the brilliant idea to take advantage of all of this girly-ness and dress Em up in a petticoat, tights, pearl necklaces and a hat, and as soon as I dragged my camera out she started pouting and said "Can I eat? I'm just stahvin'. I'm done wit this now." (said she who didn't eat the muffins.) Big Kid was pissed I didn't have "somefing cool for him to dwess in, like a bwack sirt and some cool sungwasses".
Now they are eating Spaghetti-Os (barf) and playing copycat. A minute ago Big Kid just jumped up and ran around the table to kiss her on the cheek and I think they've exchanged 900+ hugs in the last 24 hours.
All in all, they've been really good. Not even that much trouble, it's just the additional noise that is an issue. If they came with a mute button, we could do this more often.